Showing posts with label healing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label healing. Show all posts

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Relationship With Our Self

Like I said before, I'm not particularly religious, but I also think there's much to be learned about peace from the best of many spiritual traditions.  Today, I came across this piece from The Praxis Peace Institute, written by Jack Kornfield (he's addressing dharma practitioners, but that's irrelevant to my interest):
[How] do we find our own place in a complex political world, and find a way towards peace? Our first task is to make our own heart a zone of peace. Instead of becoming entangled in an embattled bitterness, or cynicism that exists externally, we need to begin to heal those qualities within ourselves. We have to face our own suffering, our own fear, and transform them into compassion. Only then can we become ready to offer genuine help to the outside world. Albert Camus writes, "We all carry within us our places of exile, our crimes, our ravages.  Our task is not to unleash them on the world; it is to transform them in ourselves."

A [person] who wants to act in the sphere of politics must quiet their mind and open their heart.  Meditate, turn off the news, turn on Mozart, walk through the trees or the mountains and begin to make yourself peaceful.  Make yourself a zone of peace, and allow the sensitivity and compassion that grows from our interconnection to extend to all beings. If we're not peaceful how can we create harmony in the world? If our own minds are not peaceful, how can we expect peace to come through the actions that we take?  http://www.praxispeace.org/views_jack_kornfield.php

There's such wisdom in the idea that all peace - in the world or in our communities or in our relationships - begins with peace within ourselves (it's sort of the premise of this blog).

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

What Is "The Peace Initiative"?

OK, I know, it sounds a bit serious and precious (ooooo . . . the “peace” initiative.)  I don’t want this conversation to be a drag, and I'm sure you'll tell me if it is.  But at the same time, peace is serious stuff, and surely it merits an(other) initiative?

Basically, The Peace Initiative is a call to each person on the planet to take just one step toward healing or repairing a relationship that has been damaged by a interpersonal conflict. 

The relationship could be with a parent, a child, a sibling, a friend, a ex-boyfriend or girlfriend, a co-worker or boss, a neighbor, a clerk at the grocery. The step could be as small as taking a few moments to wish the other person well within our own minds/hearts.  Yep, that’s right, you don’t have to interact with the person at all!  Or apologizing to a younger brother for tormenting him with tickle-torture when we were children (uh, that one’s mine). 

One step is enough to transform the earth’s energy.  What if some or all of us consistently take one step at a time?  Taking an easy step is enough.  What if some or all of us take bigger steps?

What step could you take today?